Friends

FRIENDS        -         4/11/2023,10:24 PM

Hello everyone, My name is somebody and today I would like to write something on Friends...

Are your friends caring? 
Do they like the way you are?
Do they like to be around you?
Are they using you?

Do you have a friend or friends?

I have one Bestfriend, whom I like to share almost everything and we get along well. I remember clearly how idiotically we met one day through a  mutual friend of us.
I didn't want to be his friend at first but at the end even after many fights we were getting along easily.
It's funny how stupid we are but I have had bestfriends like him(two or three) some years ago..
but sadly they all had to leave and then the COVID hit me hard...

I think about how many different people I have met and how different they are from me. Some are so much extroverted and jolly, some are funny and attract others easily, some are really beautiful and got the looks that make people to be around them, while some are good in studies and all will come seek help from them... 
Many people are introverted and talk to other introverts and get along with them(well if they make the first move) . Many people don't talk to anyone and just mind their own business and don't prefer to make any, some do want to make friends but are shy or too scared or introverted. There are people who are strangers at first, talk a bit, get more closer and eventually end up dating(this transition is the funniest).

Yes so when I think about all of these things about people making friends and all and talking getting along well and stuff, partying, enjoying and so on
I always get one question in head
That is-
'Are they just temporary friends or permanent?' 

I am the type where I would love to make permanent friends rather than just normal temporary one's because just think about it!!! isn't it fun? or is it fun to just make anyone your friend and be immature?

What I'm trying to say is when we make a friend, we will obviously get to know more about that person eventually.. It can be that after some time you don't agree to his/her views and later that friendship loosens away.
But for some it won't loosen and you get so comfortable around them that you start being you.
I'm talking about this feeling of bein comfortable around them.
comfortable because you know that he/she can be trusted and that they won't betray you no matter what and will be with you during your  hard times. 

I don't know how properly I am writing down what I actually mean but lemme write more.

You talk to everyone in class and school and throughout your school days your all happy and all but later a feeling hits where you start thinking that whom all u talked to, enjoyed and all were only for a particular time and not always.
For instance, 
COVID-19 hit me really hard making me entirely a different person. I used to be that extroverted fat kid who mingled with everyone and was liked by everyone due to my personality.
But after Pandemic, I still remember my first day of offline class and how my feelings and personality changed a lot that made people think if it was actually me.
Sitting at one end of the class, not talking to much people and having trust issues with people.
I would never want this type of thing to happen again
but after some time because of my one friend(my bestfriend) I personally think I am much better compared to before. I am able to be extroverted and all thanks to him and due to my small efforts.

So find yourself someone who won't just be with you when they too are lonely
but someone who will be there to push you up and encourage you during your hard times even at their happiest times.
Know the difference of people who be with you when they are happy and when they are lonely or sad.
Sometimes the person who helps u during their lonely time wont be the same at their happiest time, they can leave you and won't care to look back when they find other.

So guys try making more permanent friends so that you don't have to feel down in future about not having them.
Trust me even if they are online friends will work out
just be honest, loyal, caring, and together with them life becomes more beautiful...

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